getting girls? requeeeest

ok kinda generalized but usually these, if not all of these things, should work in a gud way wen ur talking to most girls.

1. be real
dont try to be someone you think someone will like cos wen they find out ur not that person it will make u seem like a jerk who just doesnt have the self confidence to be who u are

2. be confident but not cocky
girls hate cocky guys. and its prob the same vice versa. cos its like the peron thinks theyre above you and are talking down to you when theyre rlly not all that. the right amount of confidence however shows ur not desperate

3. make her smile
kinda optional? but like, in a way that makes her comfortable. and smile urself too, it never hurts. even tho that sounds kinda stupid and obvious-smiling and looking ppl in the eye-little things do count

4. dont try too hard
e.g. use pick up lines (davo) unless its the greatest pick up line of all time from how i met ur mother: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V_8_RFQZqZw&NR=1 hehe =D
other than that pick up lines, winking, grinding (remember jackie?), dirty innuendos dont work srsly

shoe fetish

while procrastinating sc practice and browsing shoes online, the thought of heels returned to my mind. as much as i love them, what is the limit for buying shoes?

the price? how it looks? comfort? or just practicality???

i told myself a few years ago that i would never buy any shoes over $300. even if they were amazing tall leather boots. but seeing as i have no money now, i dno how much is too much. what if i impulse buy and then after all my saving and i have them, what if i dont love them as much as before. its highly likely...so i dont rlly trust myself.

and then theres the general height problem. this is just what i find for tallish girls. such as me and wing ;]

im not angry but theres just some things i dont get. whats with ppl, especially guys, fussing over me being taller than them in heels? its not like its a whole 20cm taller. and if it is, why r u blaming me? do i choose and wear clothes and shoes to make YOU look gud? no. its for me.

other than the obvious being-in-a-couple thing and how its a bit weird if the girl is towering over the guy. cos i mean it would make kissing awkward lol-why do you care that some girls are just taller. and that you just didnt grow that much. am i in a relationship with you? no. even if i was i would still wear heels.

now if you look at all the models, singers, actresses and celebrities guys drool over-so many of them are taaaall.

miranda kerr-175cm


emma watson-168cm


kaya scodelario (effy from skins)-168cm


yuri from snsd-167cm


nam jihyun from 4minute-167cm


and then add on the heels these celebrities often wear and u get an extra 8-10cm. i hope you see my point lol because i. will rock. my heels. its my problem if it hurts sometimes or is a bit high for practicality, not urs. as long as guys can respect that, im happy =]

quote of the day:
"do my shoes go with my eyes?...hey stop checking me out" ;]

NEW LAYOUT

special i love chia. and her html script skills. she is epic. making my new layout possible~~

quote of the day:
"Imma be, imma be, imma imma imma be-LOL JK im a wasp ;]"

im blogging cos chia blogged. ages ago.

dont u love sleeping in summer with minimal clothes and smooth legs? yes i do. just something ive been saying a lot today lol

despicable me and going the distance

both entertaining movies,that i watcehd a while ago but couldnt b bothered blogging about.



first of all justin long is actaully very cute. well in this movie at least. its not about a couple working up the courage to do it as in 'go the distance', but about them in general and their long distance relationship. at first its a bit slow but its cute, not in the sappy kind of way. ok a little i guess but guys could watch it and they should find it somewhat entertaining cos there are plenty of innuendoes and talking about stuff only younger generations would get. ye i watched it with my mum, she didnt get half the stuff i was laughing about.

for some people, they could absolutely hate it, like the british woman sitting in front of me, who loudly announced it wen she got up at the end. so be wary. but i liked it =] its not something i would watch over and over agn tho cos its just a one time comedy type. 3 1/2 stars.



i hafta say its very kidish and some jokes are meant for 10 yr olds, but it made me laugh and want to dance along with the retro 60s music and flashing lights. there are so many cathy references its not funny.

srsly the little yellow minions are so adorable i wanna take one home XDDDD


can u refuse that face? =[

the moral and ending is sweet and gooey lol 3 stars.

quote of the day:
"its so fluffy im gonna die. ITS SO FLUFFAAAAY!!!"

gossip girl

season 4 is preeeeetty epic so far. just look at that shot right there. and that ridiculously amazing red dress. theyre just amazing. it all is. gossip girl ftw wen it comes to scandalous, sexy, stylish.



omg chuck bass if only u were real.



yes the plot is rlly fluttery and omgomgomg like cindy sed. but its so gud. i cant stop watching lol and PARIIIIIS~~ the latest eps of season 4 (1 and 2) are filmed in paris and its everything i couldve dreamed of. even if i wasnt there. looking at the fotos on google just makes me sigh and wish i was there. srsly look at them.




love serenas outfit. the one on the left. pink pants r epic.



quote of the day-in honour of the man himself:
"you got me an airplane ticket?"
"i dont need a ticket. im chuck bass"

;]

day 30-your reflection in the mirror

a lot of the time i dont like my reflection in the mirror. but like chia says, beauty is from within and there is no definition of it. so wen i can, i try to see the gud in that reflection. becos being depressed about what u look like wont make it any different =]

then theres always that annoying model girl who u see from time to time. it might not be the same person, but shes always gorgeous and dressed perfectly, her hair effortless. its those times that i feel under or over dressed and just internally shake my head at her. ive learnt to just let her walk by in all her glory and focus on how nobody is perfect, including her, and that im just amazing =] lol maybe not like that.

alright one thing i do want from my reflection, is better skin. just saying, u know, its neva a bad thing to not have to worry about ur skin. and gavin leering at u while u eat something, saying 'ITS BAD FOR UR SKIN!'. srsly, i go back to china and everyone has perfect skin. mostly. its RIDICULOUS. i feel so out of place lol and yes a few ppl commented on my skin. not in the gud way. and that never makes u feel gud. just awkward.

OMG 30 DAY CHALLENGE IS OVER. took me long enough. now normal blogging will seem so weird. but i liked some of the topics to write about. i hope ppl learned something >=]